Red Thread Journey..."An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but will never break." Chinese Proverb


This is the story of our family: Our son Jacob, born to us 12 years ago, and Our daughter Kira (2005~2006), whom was born to us~ and now she rests in heaven before us, with my husband's eldest daughter Shelby (1990~2011). They have all three blessed our lives and souls, in many ways as their humbled parents. They have powerfully lead us through GOD'S hand to be parents of more; through their love, memory, and with the help of adoption from China. We have now come complete circle and have finished our journey to family forever, to adopt our 3...uhhhhh now 4th...no... it is our 5th beloved child from China. Our first China daughter; Hannah was from Guangdong, China ~ in 2008 and we then returned to China in late 2009 to adopt Our oldest son; Scott and Our oldest daughter; Athena, both from Henan, China ~ in 2009. We just finished the process of adopting our youngest daughter; Bella from China, she was also from Henan, China ~ in 2011. At the same time we were blessed to be able to have found another waiting daughter; Deanna, our 4th china daughter, and she is our 5th child from China. She is from Guangdong, China--same as our first China daughter; Hannah (2008) --& the story behind Deanna joining us is way too long to print it all here, but our circle of forever family is complete with her ~in 2011. {Here is just an exerpt of that special final adoption journey}-- Deanna is our 1st adopted daughter's foster sister from Guangdong, China. She is now the same age as our 1st adopted daughter was when we were first united as a forever family. Deanna's Chinese name means: 'perfect, precious circle'.} Our family circle is now complete. Pray with us as we enjoy parenthood, and as we continue to rejoice in the trials, triumphs, and blessings that have lead us each time halfway around the world to add to our cherished family. This is our family we share with you, as friends and family alike.


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Sunday, October 18, 2009

A Month...

We all; (cousins included) went the Movie Theater and saw a PG family flick...{but, it's not "Alvin and The Chipmunks"}. ...And an UPDATE:
What's new after a month of being home in the USA.
Well, we received Scott's American Citizenship papers today, and a letter that Athena needs to report in person to USCIS to pick hers up... after she takes the oath, again, signs she wants to stay American, again, and be re~fingerprinted, this time Electronically. Does USCIS ever give adoption families a break... LOL! Actually they have been very friendly and nice... this is just part of the process for Athena as she immigrated and became an American Citizen through adoption; same as Scott a month ago, but her Birth Certificate puts her as an adults' immigration status.

Updates, hmmm...(Alphabetically):

Athena; is wearing glasses, has no cavities, has a plan of action for immunizations, is awaiting her EKG appointment. She is wearing a size 10 pants, and a girls Large shirt & dresses too. She is really happy and she loves her sister Hannah. She is so glad she has a big family with two brothers and she is a loving daughter to her mommy and daddy. She enjoys laughing at silly things. She is understanding a lot of English and speaking many sentences in English. She is doing Chinese Dance Class with her sister Hannah, and enjoying it alot. She is in Fifth grade and loving school. She is a typical girl with more shoes than are able to fit into the closet, LOL ...even a new pair of black faux leather boots! Hannah is really showing her the "Diva" way.
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Hannah; is doing as well, as always. She is loving being the baby sister, but also being the teaching sister. She loves having a sister, something she has missed since her and her "China Sisters" from Maoming came home. She enjoys showing her new siblings the ropes and inspiring them to behave, let loose and enjoy family and food. Hannah is in 2nd grade and reading and writing English very well. She loves everyone. Hannah is wearing a size 7/8 pants, and a Medium girls shirt and dress. {all the kids have the new adjustable waist pants, LOVE THEM}
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Jacob; is the same little man~with the humor of a "hunsufamily" member! OMG, he thinks all his humor is funny! He likes having a new brother, and a new sister and still loves Hannah and yet still manages to finds her annoying! LOL :o) He is still able to find and likes his "own time" too. He has been a big help in this transition in teaching, role modeling and listening, and genuinely helping. He is happy and loving to his siblings, most the time... except when Hannah is bossy, :o} & when Scott stinks it up with a fart... or two. :o\ Yikes (Paybacks daddy says!) Jacob is wearing a size 8/10 pants and a Medium boys shirt.
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Scott; is the most improved... LOL! He no longer jumps on beds. (China adoption travel blog)... He has really taken to listening in English and working on his complete English sentences. He loves his family and his brother and his sisters are okay too, ("family is good" he says, "I love You"). He really likes his cousins; Sarah and Dayne... and Sarah is very fond of Scott. She is the youngest and wildest and outrageously crazy... while chasing him around and playing hide and seek and she just likes having a big cousin to run and chase around fast and oh so WiLd & CrAzY!!! He enjoys the energy. He likes to laugh loud, when things are really hilarious. He does not quite have an "inside voice". He loves to say "mommy, mommy, mommy look, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy", and has a question for us; each time. Each time we come running, even though we are only inches away from him. LOL! It seems to comfort him to know we are here for him, his needs and to love him. He loves 5th grade and all his classmates are his friends, :o) even the teacher. He does still walk a bit (about 8 paces) ahead of the pack or a tad bit lagging when we are out in public. And he may want to wonder a few feet away if we are stopped looking at an isle in the store, he is very curious and eager to see and learn. He wants a computer,... Haha~ who doesn't; I told him he has to learn more English to use it, read upon it & navigate it. He is awaiting his dental visit, things look fairly good in that dept. he is growing his back molars. He is wearing a size 12 "husky" pants and a boys Large shirt. Oh, & yes he is a typical boy, loves jokes, DVD's,Video Games, lightsabers and farts... :o)
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All four are affectionate with plenty of hugs for parents and siblings alike and with mommy & daddy goodnight cheek kisses too and holding hands while walking places... (the boys - not so much with the hand holding in public... go figure... no surprise on that one). :o)
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They all say "I Love You". Each are beginning to understand "Today, Tomorrow and Tomorrow-Tomorrow", when determining time lines. They can all tell time on a clock; which is beneficial in determining timelines as well. It must be hard to be in this "limbo bubble" of sorts, learning a new language and to do things and go along with the group... and to be happy and content even though you are a wee'bit confused by the sounds, the date and the days of the week printed and explained in English. But we learned from Scott from his new formed English sentences that the Chinese Calendar starts on a Monday and ends on a Sunday. We mark each day off on the kitchen calendar and we talk about when we have school, work, a day off, when we are going shopping at the Asian Grocery or Going to the College for Chinese Language School/Dance. All this is helpful.
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As for basic chores: They all help with gathering their laundry and making their bed and clearing their dishes from meals. They all can brush their own teeth nicely and we are learning the ropes, {all most mastered} of how to use a shower. Not a splash water tub, type, squat and clean thingy... It is good. They are doing great at self care, American Style. :o) The girls enjoy helping mom a bit in the kitchen as well. They are eating more variety and protein too... I actually can not remember when I last cooked Ramen... :o) but I can tell you this, it will most likely be tonight. LOL!!! and I'd better get them started...

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