Red Thread Journey..."An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but will never break." Chinese Proverb


This is the story of our family: Our son Jacob, born to us 12 years ago, and Our daughter Kira (2005~2006), whom was born to us~ and now she rests in heaven before us, with my husband's eldest daughter Shelby (1990~2011). They have all three blessed our lives and souls, in many ways as their humbled parents. They have powerfully lead us through GOD'S hand to be parents of more; through their love, memory, and with the help of adoption from China. We have now come complete circle and have finished our journey to family forever, to adopt our 3...uhhhhh now 4th...no... it is our 5th beloved child from China. Our first China daughter; Hannah was from Guangdong, China ~ in 2008 and we then returned to China in late 2009 to adopt Our oldest son; Scott and Our oldest daughter; Athena, both from Henan, China ~ in 2009. We just finished the process of adopting our youngest daughter; Bella from China, she was also from Henan, China ~ in 2011. At the same time we were blessed to be able to have found another waiting daughter; Deanna, our 4th china daughter, and she is our 5th child from China. She is from Guangdong, China--same as our first China daughter; Hannah (2008) --& the story behind Deanna joining us is way too long to print it all here, but our circle of forever family is complete with her ~in 2011. {Here is just an exerpt of that special final adoption journey}-- Deanna is our 1st adopted daughter's foster sister from Guangdong, China. She is now the same age as our 1st adopted daughter was when we were first united as a forever family. Deanna's Chinese name means: 'perfect, precious circle'.} Our family circle is now complete. Pray with us as we enjoy parenthood, and as we continue to rejoice in the trials, triumphs, and blessings that have lead us each time halfway around the world to add to our cherished family. This is our family we share with you, as friends and family alike.


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Sunday, July 26, 2009

Care Packages

We are sending care packages to our two newest children in China, waiting in Henan for us. We hope to travel in a few short weeks to bring them home. In the mean time we want to get to know them, and them us...


We are working with Ann, she lives in Guangdong, China where Hannah was from. We use http://redthreadchina.com/ to connect, it makes it much easier to use her service/store through her website to send the care packages. The packages will get there faster and safer with her tremendous service. Ann will translate our letters we wrote to each child, and put our family pictures into a pretty album to delivery to them. We sent our son and daughter a set of clothes, candy ;o) and a camera too, so they could take pictures of their friends and nannies before we come.


Update 07.27.09: We received a couple new pictures of Scott, and his new measurements from his SWI, through Ann.


Update 07.28.09: We did receive Athena's new measurements and 3 pictures.

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(please do not cross post our news, I would love to just keep it here: amongst us in the "family".)

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

LOA

LOA is the LETTER OF ACCEPTANCE; This is it! China has officially requested we decide.
We have officially accepted our two children today.
Here is a little boy, wanting his BROTHER!


but.....wait..... not so fast.....

We are a Hague Family, this in adoption terms means; painful waiting, long decision processes, and tons more paperwork, a few more fees, but mostly TIME. and we don't have time... we have to make it to China in Early Sept. to receive Athena Niuniu before she ages out and is no longer eligible for adoption.

Our agency wants to believe we can do it, & so do I. James, 'bout had a heart attack after hearing the doom & gloom of what lies ahead from Lily in our meeting at her office yesterday. The control of the situation now, is of no ones avail. It's Government, Political and a Hurdle, all to protect families and children from being victims in adoption processes, and it takes massive time to honor and protect those laws... TIME, which we don't have... oh, I mentioned that already. :o(

but.....wait.....not so fast.....

Our timeline requests that 9 weeks of US Government work be done in 3 weeks. We may have to call a Senator, a House District Member... a Politician... which I know of none... I don't even know where to begin to do this... I guess I will learn!!!, and rather quickly.

I will keep you posted, if we make progress. It looks like we have 5 more steps of the US Government paperwork that needs to be granted, before China can invite us to come adopt our children and bring them home.

Our new son, Scott Yu which we are blessed by God's gift, will be able to come home;~our daughter will have to beat the clock. This is a sad and harsh reality to us and her, but we are doing everything we can to accomplish our dream of having Niuniu as our daughter, God's gift... Forever.
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(please do not cross post our news, I would love to just keep it here: amongst us in the "family".)

Thursday, July 16, 2009

PA{PreApproval} and ... PA today!

Hi all,
This has been an incredible journey thus far to our two newest children. We are blessed to announce we received PA {Pre-Approval from China} for our son and PA for our daughter. Both are older child adoptions and are from HENAN, China. We want to take a moment and make sure our recognition of this amazing miracle is to CCAI~The HENAN Project, and the "Dedicated Staff" in the Waiting Child Dept.!
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Oh My Gosh, we were blessed to find our son, Guo Yu (referred to us as a healthy 10.5 year old boy, in October 2008, through a camp for older children. (this camp happens at a few different agencies & provinces around China.) The video we received, was icing on the cake for our family...after reviewing a file,... but wait; Guo Yu's file was incomplete for an older child adoption. It was not completely ready for IA (International Adoption), it had not made it fully to Beijing yet... so we waited, as we prepared our Dossier {A large pile of official legal documents about us.} to adopt again from The China Special Needs Program.
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One month, Two month...EIGHT months. Our Dossier finally left for China in June 2009. (the USCIS/United States Customs and Immigration Service, was really lagging {using kind words ;o\} for us; and we are a Hague Family {A Treaty in place to fight child trafficking, FYI: China has been a Hague Country for at least a decade or maybe two, now our US government conformed and sign the Treaty as well, in April 2008.), but we made it. ~ We were LID {LOG IN DATE} 07/08/09 after nearly 9 months. ;o)
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Along this journey, we had been approved by our Social Worker and USCIS to adopt two older children... (first USCIS lost our Original HS {Home Study} and then the second time around they forgot to word our I-797 C {the last document needed for our Dossier} for two older children, so we needed an addendum to our Home Study to fix this (at a fee of course) LOL!! The third time was a charm :o). Then as we are sending our Dossier to China, a wonderful older girl, took our breathe away. She was from the CCAI web-site of waiting children. She was ageing out of the China Adoption Program and her bio listed Post Surgery for major congenital heart disease {TOF/Tetralogy of Fallot}. We so wanted to bring her home as our daughter, But her bio said LID ONLY NEED APPLY... that Monday we were disappointed. We knew though, that we were blessed to be with CCAI~Henan Project to bring us a son. So we sat on the sideline waiting each day for Beijing to receive Guo Yu's file :o), all the while gazing at Liu NiuNiu, a child we would be forever blessed, if we could call her daughter...
Later, that same week, "Pat" posted a message on our yahoo group, it said CCAI WC Dept. wanted her to advocate for this wonderful girl, and stated if you were DTC {Dossier To China} you could apply not just LID only... I would tell you what else the email said... but I did not get that far... I clicked on my email,... and emailed Deniece at her desk, and said this is our daughter!! I told her we were DTC, could it be possible? It took a few days of CCAI internal workings, or so I imagine, but we got a call a week later and said they would do everything that was with in their capabilities & possible. But, this was not concrete, nor was it easy, nor it be even totally possibly. The CCAA is the ultimate authority.
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We still wanted to proceed, no matter the outcome. How could we not try, our diligent best to bring our son and our daughter home.
BUT...... Guo Yu's file still had not come to IA.... it was now 8.5 months since we saw his video. Deniece proceeded to tell us how we should proceed, and it was not going to be easy, nor very possible. Plausible,...well YES; but not very likely, a long shot, it is rare, she "insisted" that we know this. But this was it, we just had to proceed; broken hearted or not, we had to. We just had to ask for NiuNiu too.
Well, it took a few more weeks for the CCAA to release our son's file from Henan to CCAI. That happened this Monday, & well... we already had our LOI prepared & translated for him and our LOI prepared & translated for her (located at CCAI), just waiting for this day, to proceed. We held our breathe, cried, & Prayed and CCAI sent our LOI's on Monday 07/13/09 for both children.
AND...
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Today 07/16/09 we received news from the WC Dept. that China has granted us a PA for a boy and a PA for a girl!
We are Humbled to announce we have a son... and a daughter!
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Please welcome Scott Yu and Athena NiuNiu.
Love, ash and family ;o)
wife to Jim
mom to Jacob 9,
our "Angel" Kira 1,
Hannah (A. 7/1/08 Guangdong)
Scott and Athena... waiting in Henan.
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(please do not cross post our news, I would love to just keep it here: amongst us in the "family".)

Scott Yu

and

Athena NiuNiu

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Swim Time.. again

The day starts out with a jump into the pool.Some one's beautiful hair is starting to get a little, in the way.
Jacob and Hannah are good swimming partners.
I think Jacob has plenty of "air" in those cheeks!
Hannah's not far behind...
Jacob love, loves jumping in the pool.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

12 month post adoption visit

A Year ago today we arrived home with our Daughter.The happy family tonight.Jake and Hannah Banana, awhhh! :o)

Our adorable friend and SW, brought Miss Hannah an Anniversary gift. "SHE ABSOLUTELY LOVES IT!"

Monday, July 6, 2009

Vacation: Day 5 (A reunion of foster sisters, One year in the making)

Arriving at our hotel for the reunion; R. and her girls.The 3 Mei's. (Hannah is looking inquistive) :o)Yum, the pizza.The three families. (Aren't we cute) ;o)The 3 "China Sisters". The siblings.
The fun...The girls' 1 Year reunion day started off slowly...
they were a little shy of each other at first,
But...
It didn't take long for them to start having the kind of fun that we had hoped.

Vacation: Day 4

Today we went to the Wildlife Preserve in the Wichita Mountains.
We were able to see some wildlife, even in the 103+ degree heat. Buffalo & Longhorns. We drove around the lake and had lunch at a local inn.After lunch, ...later on in evening we attended a BBQ!!! at the home of the grandparents' friend. (Yes, we did EAT... on VACATION... A LOT) :o)
And we saw some amazing hummingbirds.
Well, according to Hannah, ...The "OMG Hummingbirds"!
Later that night, we returned to the same general area,
to take in the fireworks show ~ out over the lake.

Vacation: Day 2&3

We arrived on Day 2 in OK after 12pm, so after a little lunch with the grandparents and neighbors... we went window shopping & took in a movie at the mall "ICE AGE 3"!!!
We had some pool time that night at the hotel with the kids.
The start of Day 3... was an early morning 9 holes of Golf for the guys.
Later that day we did another movie, "Transformers 2"!!! and more pool time.
Did I mention it is 103+ degrees in OK. :o\

Grandpa let Jacob drive this golf cart,... uhhh; no one told mommy until the next day ;o).

Vacation: Day 1

As you can see, I got some pretty~scary travel partners. We set forth on our trip at noon after the kids got out of summer school.
"Is it too much to ask Ash to drive with both hands?" Look ma, no hands! ;o)Pretty girl!Scary!Oh good, cute again!The drive ~ pig farms, cow farms, chicken farms, corn farms, soybean farms...
and Windmill Farms! All that silliness has a price to pay... it's called sleep.
Trust me, that was the Best part of the day. :)
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